Marsha p johnson was a gay man that didnt arrive at stonewall until hours later. You can look of recording of hinself explaining that he wasn't there, and he has stated that he is a drag queen and a man. You fucking lying piece of history erasing nazi-esq shit head. Also, your pronouns tell me youre a straight girl, so maybe stay the fuck out of lgb history.
"I have been corrected about that in the past, thank you. I know now that Miss Marshal [a black trans woman] threw the shot glass heard around the world. However, I can’t do anything to stop a post I reblogged in ignorance years ago from still doing the circuit. You know how Tumblr is about circulating things.
If I reblog or queue that post again, I will make an effort to amend history with what I have learned since.
I remain, as ever, a simple soul attempting to learn how to be a better one. May all your past mistakes find you in a better place.
I mean, if their therapist said it to them I can assume that ''stop doing this thing'' came from a place of ''because it specifically harms you''.
"Likely, but given that they’re angry about it, I can also assume that there was no codicil of “here’s some things you could try to help you stop doing the thing” which is a huge obstacle in otherwise helpful instructions.
I mean, I get what you're saying but I'll have to disagree. I'm not always anxious for a reason. And even when there is a reason (like work deadlines) the reaction (oh god Family Feels X) isn't always related. I don't know the OP of that post, but having to learn how to calm down about other people's feelings of you isn't always related to their actual actions. Summary: There isn't always a reason and when there is it's not always rationally connected. Which just creates more anxiety.
"Yeah solving the problem isn’t always as easy as it seems. I never said it was a logical reason for anxiety though. Illogic is always the problem with brain stuff.
Hyper-awareness sucks. Under-awareness also sucks because you [me] end up self-punishing for months on end because hyper-empathy is also a GD thing tangled up in this [my] nonsense.
Me is not you. You is not me. Neither of us is OP and trying to help with available information inevitably ends up in the mire.
Pretty sure we can agree that “Just stop [DOING X]” never firkin works?
There's a difference between being aware and being hyper aware. Hyper awareness usually only harms you by heightening your anxiety and making you read into things more easily, even tho those are things the person themselves might not even be aware of. It's how you get a ''they're upset. Are they upset at me? Their body language changed after I said X!'' response. Whereas no one else would've noticed and the person themselves isn't thinking of you at all.
"Strictly IMHO, that’s still a bit of a red flag about the people in OP’s life. And there’s a difference between “here’s how you can help tone down the self-accusation” and “stop guarding yourself from potential attacks” and “stop reading social cues altogether and leave yourself vulnerable to being hated via your own social blindness.”
…I’m probably reading things into this too. There’s untold things in every story.
Anxious people are anxious for a reason, is what I’m saying. Finding ways to ease the reasons should be more reasonable than telling an anxious person to completely stop their primary coping strategy.
Personally, playing “best case/worst case/most likely case” is a better way of handling all of it. Practice with the shrink/understanding folks and get into the groove of it by the time the high stress event occurs.
ALL of this is strictly IMHO. I am ASD, socially anxious, and reading people is an important skill I still fail at. If I could just read people, I’d be in a lot less trouble during my life.
Idk if you know this but AO3 has a legal team devoted to protecting you and your rights if your works get stolen or someone goes after you for copyright issues (which they shouldn’t under fair use)
"This isn’t a copyright issue per se. AO3′s legal team can’t defend me from some ripbot taking my fanfiction and using an app to mirror their site content for profit.
Similarly, I can’t prove that I am not making money from said ripbot mirror app because cryptocurrency exists and is used for all sorts of shady dealings. Nevermind that the app programmer is making all the advertising coin, They have to make an example of a lot of people to make a big splash. [”They” being whomsoever has their undies in a bunch over the ripbot app in the first place]
AO3 keeps copyright in possession of the author, which means that if I’m damaged by a ripbot mirror app, I have to sue them. Since said damage has happened from a presumably large corporation suing my arse off, and I don’t have a defence since the violation happened through a third party, I’m left in a legal pit with no way out. Yay.
Call me a paranoid B if you want, but I remember the Before Times, when a rather famous vampire author was suing fanficcers for using her IP and winning. I much prefer to err on the side of caution and make sure no ripbot can touch my shit.
I understand this causes some problems for you. I’m willing to go out of my way to make sure you get the content you desire for your personal entertainment.
Whatever happened to your AO3?
"I locked every story I had to stop spam apps from profiting off fanfiction. That’s beyond illegal where I am and I didn’t want any overzealous administrative types going after my keister through an erroneous assumption.
I apologise for the inconvenience and, if you want a fic of mine but can’t access it through AO3, I’ll happily send you either a copy of it or the link to the Google Doc, whichever is more convenient.
Hey, I just wanted to warny out hat the post your reblogged about the doxxed kid was very aphobic (by implying all aces doxx gay people/ace people can't be lgbt+ because of this individual's actions). It is kind of you to reblog something to help a doxxed minor fleeing home, but if you're worried about not sending out an aphobic persona, I would reblog it with some kind of acknowledgement to that fact.
"Thanks for the heads-up, Nonny. I made the mistake of reblogging that one in a hurry and not parsing the entire argument [I am still blind to a lot of dog whistles and I frequently miss some elements of subtext. I’m still working on that]. I am not aphobic or anything of the ilk. If I happen to reblog that post again, any statement I make will be along the lines of being anti-cruelty. Outing anyone without their permission is a bad thing. It was bad to doxx those other kids, it was bad to be cruel to the ace kid.
We need more patience and understanding all around, I think, within the entire LGBTIAQ community.
Some people will insist on being horrible, regardless of colour/identity/sexuality. I’m just trying my best to not be a horrible person and hoping some folk take the good example to heart.
Can everyone love and support each other and try their hardest to look out for people? For a change?
So is it going from comic to story and back again or doing whatever
"It is doing whatever. If you want to artify it, artify it. If you want to restory, restory. The most important thing is the fun.
Do you have an account on TV Tropes?
"Not yet. I do spend a lot of time down that rabbit hole though
That’a a paranoia alert because the site uses blockchain. None of my virus protections have gone off about it, and as the spouse of a sysadmin, I got some very alert ones.
Can you click through or select “trust this site”? I can promise that Peakd is not malicious in any way.